the post dot theory

things will come for those who wait, they say. And for someone who failed to wait, the object with which I was supposed to wait for finally come a little too late.

and it was in this moment that I earnestly realized the importance of waiting for something, and not settling it with something else. But as time goes by, you too shall realize that most of the time people spend time waiting for something that never comes.

anyways, the above two paragraphs might have no correlation to the so called post dot theory, a theory which I just recently discovered and elaborated upon listening to a friend's complicated problem which he gladly indulged in.

the post dot itself actually revolves around boredom, a condition post satisfaction which denotes the completion of a process. Though it initially formulated around relationships, it can be applied to nearly everything else.

I too have experienced such conditions, where the dot was passed inevitably, resulting in the passing of satisfaction. And when it happens, we can safely say that the process has run its course.

imagine a pyramid of processes, and that the tip of the pyramid is the ultimate goal of why the pyramid exist. logically, once something has completed its purpose, though may not fail in retaining its usefulness, our satisfaction level has evaporated as soon as we've reached the tip of the pyramid, the dot, hence the name.

I find it in particular examples where people are bored with somethings after they have discovered everything they can discover about something, with nothing else to know.

I would surmise that the theory will not work for something that people don't actually 'have', so it goes. because to be bored about something, people will need to 'have' the thing.

this all could just be bullshit, or a common sense not worth the fuzz to be made a theory, but when you finally felt distant, recluse or ask yourself a duration something might remain attractive, desirable, though not preferable, remember this theory: like going up a pyramid, you will eventually reached its top, and when you do, it's only a matter of moment when you reached post dot.

and a process will always runs its course.